movie of the day!!!The Break-up( the link of the movie can be found by clicking on the title. )An anti-romantic comedy that follows a couple's often comical, sometimes painful, but always entertaining journey into the unraveling and deconstruction of a once solid and loving relationship. Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston star in 'The Break-Up"
which starts where most romantic comedies end: after boy and girl have met, fallen in love, moved in to start their happily-ever-after... and right when they wind up driving each other crazy. Pushed to the breaking-up point after their latest "why can't you do this one little thing for me?" argument, art dealer Brooke (Aniston) calls it quits with her husband, Gary (Vaughn), who hosts bus tours of Chicago. What follows is a series of remedies, war tactics, overtures and underminings suggested by the former couple's friends, confidantes and the occasional total stranger. When neither is willing to move out of the condo they used to share, the only solution is to continue living as hostile roommates until somebody caves. But somewhere between protesting the pool table in the living room, the dirty clothes stacked in the kitchen cupboards and the sports played at sleep-killing volume in the middle of night, Brooke begins to realize that what she may be really fighting for isn't so much the place but the person.
My say of the movie.
The movie was a good movie. It portrayed how a couple had their sweet moments before everything ended. It shows how a two year relationship of marriage can easily end due to the differences between two people. Even though love still exists, but then the differences overcame the love that led to a break up. The movie was filled with romance, comedy and dramas. Even though they both loved each other, but they refuse to give in to each other leading to fights. They hid their love, pain and suffering for each other. They had a hidden wish to go back with each other but none wish to say and both did not understand each other hidden meaning. At the end, what was left was a break up. A good movie though, it teaches how by hiding things within yourself would not help in a situation. Everything in life can be worked out in a way. It is not impossible to solve any problem you just need to give in. That is how someone can learn to maintain love. Share your thoughts with one another and nothing would go wrong. Hide everything and there would be trouble.
Stage 6: Differentiating
This is the stage filled with communication and interaction marked by over conflict. The intense differentiation may reflect that the relationship has developed too fast. An example would be when Brooke said " Why can't you do this one thing for me? " to Gary. Whenever they talked about a topic like that, they would get into a heated argument.
Stage 7: Circumstanscribing
This stage talks how communication became so restricted. It leads to how couples would help their conversation by saying " I don't want to talk about it". An example would be when after the fight they both had, they both shouted that they do not want to talk any more. Brooke would go to the room and Gary would leave the house. They both would not want to talk about it any more.
Stage 8: Stagnating
This stage is about a relationship that has the absence of joy and excitement. Everything that is done within life is all just a routine. The relationship is still held on as they would want to avoid the pain of termination. Brooke would enter her room when she reaches home and Gary would stay in the living room as that was his room at that point. They would do things separately but the thoughts of selling the house both would feel a sense of sadness.How they tried to get each other attention.
Stage 9: Avoiding
This stage would be when both would avoid each other. Their channels of communication are sealed as they would not want to communicate with each other. When Brooke left a note for Gary instead of telling him that the house is sold already. Gary only saw the note when he woke up. When he was home, she was always going out.
Stage 5: Terminating
The relationship comes to an end. Both parties would move on.
Gary and Brooke moved out of the house and signed the contract.
A question to think about.
How often have you kept something of sadness from another person that have led to fights? Is it true that a relationship both parties need to open up, share and give in?
Do comment to tell me your answers.
